WELCOME, BROTHER...
I'M GLAD YOU'RE HERE
First, I invite you to take a deep breath, consider it a gift—a moment’s peace in your busy day—one simple deep breath.
I’m glad you’re here, because no matter how you got here… you are in exactly the right place. And, while it may seem unclear at this moment… Everything will be fine.
I’m here to help you get through this one step at a time. And, I want you to know that you don’t (and shouldn’t) have to do divorce alone…
I’ve been through it, and I’ll help you get through it too.
YOU CAN THRIVE THROUGH, AND BEYOND DIVORCE
I’m Steven Srotir, a divorce coach, educator and trainer who knows how it feels to unexpectedly understand… ‘it’s all over’.
As painful and raw as that was for me, I was determined to use this time well, for my own good and for the good of my family… to go beyond surviving into a better life beyond divorce.
My mission is to get every man going through divorce timely, effective and affordable support: access to a toolbox selectively stocked with all the information, resources, skills, and support you need to successfully navigate the difficulties of separation and divorce – reclaiming your power and improving your life one decision, and one action at a time.
I'VE BEEN THROUGH IT,
AND I WILL HELP YOU...
HOLD ONTO YOUR KIDS,
YOUR MONEY, YOUR MIND.
As you may have guessed, I’m divorced…
Afterall, how useful of a Divorce Coach would I be if I hadn’t made it to the other side… right?
- Divorce, was not part of my plan in life.
- Neither was becoming a Divorce Coach.
And, since you’re reading this, you understand—more than most—that life doesn’t always turn out as you planned.
And, life moves on… so we must move with it.
DIvorce is difficult,
we make it easy for you in 3 steps…
For When You Need Helping Holding Onto What’s Most Important...
Best In Class Education
We give you the education you never got, but should have. And, it’s not some lame elective class either. Our approach to helping you learn is smart, hands on, and great for people who like to learn through experience. If you like learning, you will love diving deeper into how romantic relationships work.
Practice Makes Permanent
It’s hard to be good at anything without practice, and so few people really practice with high quality relationship tools. But this is a secret to our success rates. We practice. And then, we practice some more. Want a great relationship? Practice listening, practice boundaries, practice owning your needs.
Results That Matter
Results come to those who get educated and practice. If you do these 2 things, you’re ability to listen and speak during upsetting and challenging times will dramatically improve. More importantly, you’ll be more mature. You’ll be the leader everyone goes to in times of relational stress.
KEY AREAS OF TRAINING
ATTORNEYS
Choosing your attorney is one of the most important decisions you will make. Learn how to evaluate when an attorney is a good fit for you, and how to ensure your retainer is used well.
FAMILY COURT
Understand the different phases of the divorce process and what you will need to work on and when. And, exactly what you need to do for each of the 9 steps of the Divorce Process.
CO-PARENTING
Being aware of what co-parenting actually means, and what options are available to you (and how they work) will help you get started in the best way possible, at the best time… the very beginning.
COMMUNICATION
For co-parenting run smoothly, you will need effective communication skills for the kind of co-parenting relationship you are moving forward with. This can range from amicable to darn right difficult.
COMMUNITY
Something powerful happens when men work together in community. Growth and progress is accelerated, leadership ignites, and deep bonds are forged in shouldering one of life’s most challenging unexpected turns.
EXPECTATIONS
Divorce can change everything, requiring a major reframe of your expectations for what is a “life worth living”. Honing in on what really matters most to you is critical to leading a fulfilling life beyond divorce, for you and your family.
SELF-LEADERSHIP
Learn how to manage yourself under stress so you can be more calm, cool-headed and confident in yourself… and, for what you bring your loved ones to live with purpose, direction, and stability.
RELATIONSHIPS
Learn and practice the two key approaches you will need to build and enjoy the kind of relationships you want most; with your former partner, your kids, and for love beyond divorce.
Testimonials
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING...
I WILL HELP YOU GET THROUGH STEP-BY-STEP
Divorce dishes out plenty of challenges… confusion, fear, anger, grief, sadness, and much more.
All of this eclipses your sense of what your life is about or how it will ever be fine again… having you lose touch with your sense of meaning, purpose, and drive.
You lose touch with how in the world you will get yourself and your family through this, let alone to a better place.
This is where I step in, and where I am at my best…
As many of the men I work have put it…
“You got really good at something no one should need to be good at.”
I agree, no one should have to get good at this stuff.
And, no one should suffer from not getting good at it.
I made it to the other side.
I’ve helped many men make their way through to a better place.
I will help you get there too.
